Why the Word "Obey" Feels Heavy-But Was Meant to Set Us Free
- Ponda Collier
- Jul 10, 2025
- 2 min read
There's a word in the Bible that seems to rattle most.......O-B-E-Y. To the world, it sounds outdated. Maybe even oppressive. Like something meant to silence or control.
But to God, obedience is not bondage. It's a BLESSING.
Why has the culture around us began to treat obedience like a bad word?
Why "Obey " Feels Like SUBSERVIENCE Today
We live in a time where freedom is defined by doing whatever feels right.
We are told to "be your own boss", "live your truth" (hear often) and "break the rules if they don't serve you." ....TRUTH is the Word of God. It's contradicting to hear..."Live your truth" and not fully understand TRUTH.
Obedience, on the other hand, sound like:
*Giving up your voice
*Losing control
*Becoming a follower
It's no wonder the word "obey" feels more like a leash than LOVE.
BUT, that's not what God meant.
What God Says About Obedience
In Scripture, OBEDIENCE is not about control - it's about TRUST.
"If you love Me, Keep My Commandments." - John 14:15
Jesus didn't say, "If you fear Me..." He said, "If you love Me..."
In God's Kingdom, OBEDIENCE is not a power struggle.
It is how we respond to what "LOVE" is.
Obedience Isn't Less, Its More
Jesus obeyed the Father. Not because He was less than God, but because He trusted the will of the Father, who sent Him.
"He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to death - even death on a cross!"
Philippians 2:8
If the Son of God chose obedience, not as weakness but as strength and surrender, what does that say to us?
We are truly BLESSED because of His obedience, which can lead to another Blog Post!!!
Last Thoughts
We live in a society that wants PURPOSE.
There's a crave for meaning, truth, justice, and authenticity.
You often hear"I'm living my truth" and TRUTH is the Word of God.
Obedience? It's the bridge between knowing God's Word and living it.
Final Reflections
Obedience may never trend.
It may never feel popular.
But it will ALWAYS be POWERFUL.
It's the quiet "yes" that changes everything.
Let the world around us call it subservience.
Let heaven call it surrender.
And may we live out obedience not as a burden, but as our response to God who first LOVED us.
WHAT HAS GOD ASKED YOU TO OBEY, BUT SOCIETY SAYS RESIST?
Let's talk about it below.


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